Doing Something New

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So, I’ve started taking golf lessons.

Let’s start at the beginning. My dad has loved golf for as long as I can remember. He’s taken me out on courses to ride along, and I have fond memories of hacking away at wiffle balls in my backyard when I was seven or eight. I never really got into golf, though, and didn’t think much more about it until my sophomore year in high school, where I got a part-time job at a golf course that was about two minutes away from my house. My dad was a member there, I knew one of the girls who worked in the pro shop behind the food counter, and they were looking to hire through referrals. I walked into my boss’ office and he handed over the paperwork; there really was no interview (good thing, too — at 16, I wouldn’t have had any idea what to say or do).

The work was easy, the tips were great, my coworkers and customers were nice, but I didn’t really get into playing golf. Even when several guys I dated loved it and encouraged me to try it (with my dad voicing his approval of the idea in the background), I didn’t — at least until my senior year of high school. I went out to the driving range a few times with my then-boyfriend, went out a couple of times with my dad, and then, finally, I took one or two casual lessons with the pro at the golf course. I don’t think I really learned much — they were free lessons, the pro was on his way toward retirement (he was over 80), and we more or less hung out and chatted, hacked at a couple of balls, and called it a day. It wasn’t until recently that I thought about taking up golf again. Quite simply, I’d decided to save money on horseback riding lessons for the summer (against my will, really; my trainer at school is much more affordable than the ones here), but I wanted something regular to do on the weekends that would get me out of the house and into the sunshine. Last summer, I walked around one of the golf courses in my grandparents’ neighborhood every night. This summer, on a walk around the course, I thought hey — why not try golf again? And seriously, this time?

Within a few days, I’d met the pros at the course and scheduled lessons for Saturday morning lessons. I had my first lesson this past weekend, and was surprised to hear that the head pro that I was pretty darn good for being what I called “a true beginner.” He said I knew the length of the club (I wasn’t taking chunks out of the driving range), and kept asking me what sports I do competitively (answer: zero). I asked him to take me through the fundamentals because I really wanted to learn them, and he did. It was awesome. I surprised myself by getting really, really into it, actually. By the end of our lesson the pro was happy, I was happy and surprised, and he was willing to lend me a club to practice with until our next lesson. The next morning I woke up with sore arms and shoulders, but I was pretty excited to go out to the range and try again. I went out last night with my grandpa and hit a bucket of balls, and I can’t really explain the feeling of hitting a ball straight, high loft, about 100 yards (I was using a 6 iron). It felt good.

I plan to keep practicing and taking lessons this summer, with the end goal obviously being to play with my grandpa, play with my dad when he visits at the end of June, and hopefully hit the course right by my house when I go back home in August. I don’t know if I’ll ever be that good (like my dad, who is obsessed with golf and has quite the low handicap), but it makes me happy to do something he really loves, and have something that we both can discuss and enjoy together, other than cars. I’m pretty excited to play with my grandpa, too. Here’s hoping that I can play well enough to go hit with the both of them this winter break when we all travel to Hawai’i together.

Until then…fore!

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livefull 10 pts

Gold - Th passion for me too! I wish of good luck for your practice. I am sure you gonna have great time ever.

maxmate 6 pts

cool,i love to find out more and more.

William Veasley 7 pts

Anne: My dad loves golf and is addicted just like yours! Sometimes my mom thinks that he is too addicted because he can have every tv in the house on golf (Laugh out loud). He has tried to get me to play regularly many times and I am sure he will keep trying until he wins me over. I played a few times, but never really got into it. I am not any good so that probably has a lot to do with why I never really thought anything of it.

I think its awesome that you find things to do that get you out the house. You have to do what makes you happy inside, you know? Me on the other hand, I am trying to do the opposite and focus my time around meditating. I think it is awesome how yogis monks can meditate for years and conqour their minds. That really interest me. I am no longer afraid of being alone and I do not exactly know how long, but I am going to be alone for a long time.

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 William Veasley My dad was pretty persistent too, and I guess it paid off for him in the end! And you're right, doing what you want to do rather than bending to the pressures of others is incredibly important. It's my #1 way of achieving balance!

The Hipster Owl's Bookshelf 21 pts

Hello dearie, I know you checked out my blog due to your jog, but I got curious to check out YOUR blog. ;)  I'm graduating next year too, and I must say that Savvy Cinderella looks like a cute website to have worked for! :)

 

Good luck with the golfing lesson! I played putt-putt a few times as a child, but that's as far as my interest went into this particular sport. ;)  I always felt that watching a golf on TV was about as exciting as watching a knitting competition.

 

Toodles! ;)

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 MusingsinRed Hey, well thank YOU for stopping by here! :) Are you excited for your last year of school? I can't believe it's already here, but I'm also eager to experience everything senior year has to offer, spend time with my friends...and then take the jump out into the real world. Scary, but exciting! 

DEHenderson 12 pts

Anne ... such a nice piece. I love how you begin: "Let’s start at the beginning." Simplicity always wins and gets us to want more. In his masterpiece, "Under Milkwood," Dylan Thomas begin his story, "To begin at the beginning ..."

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 DEHenderson Thank you, David! Glad you enjoyed.

Milaspage 129 pts

Hey Anne! I think it's wonderful that you're giving golf a try even after some not-so-interesting experiences. I tried golf for a few years myself , not really getting it. Then one summer, I decided to find a true golf pro, who had many referrals as an excellent teacher. After my first lesson there was a huge improvement - he was extremely insightful into how I learned and adapted to me. I learned more in that 2 hour session than I had ever learned in years. Seeing it through this amazing teachers eyes, really , really changed everything for me. Now I consider golf to be quite close to yoga. Yes, yoga. Its about form and feeling the movement through the stroke, really aligning yourself internally - it just flows. I was also very lucky , part of his approach was to video the lessons, so I later could watch myself and revisit the lessons. Its really hard to put into words what golf is really about, but I think it can be very interesting if you just feel yourself in the whole process. I hope you keep at it, and enjoy it :) This was a really great post, thank you!

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 Milaspage Hi Mila! I don't doubt that golf and yoga have similarities for you. I've found myself gravitating toward that ideology myself as I've taken more golf lessons. Like yoga, I have to be very aware of what every small part of my body is doing, from my feet, to my balance in my legs, to my waist, to my shoulders, all the way through my wrists and into my fingers. Not only do I have to be aware of each part separately, but also how they're working in unison to really complete my swing. When everything clicks and my timing is perfect, my swing is great. It really centers your attention on yourself, doesn't it? All of the sudden the world is reduced to my body, the club, and that teeny tiny little ball on the ground. Pretty amazing. Thanks for stopping by and commenting! :)

hardik 21 pts

Thanks  for any other wonderful post. Where else may just anybody get that type of information in such an ideal method of writing? I have a presentation next week, and I'm on the look for such information.

ReliableSkip 5 pts

I find it amazingly helpful, as far as creativity is concerned, to try something new once in a while. Not everyone likes being out of their comfort zone, but doing so every now and then can lead to great things :)

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 ReliableSkip Absolutely! Switching up my normal routine helps so much to spark my creativity. And you're right, stepping out of our comfort zones is always a good thing to do -- makes us grow! :) 

imsatindoll 5 pts

Its always good to try something new. I never felt a strong desire for golf, but I would totally love to ride around the course on a golf kart though. I play volleyball regularly and basketball from time to time. However I am thinking about switching it up and trying tennis for the first time.

 

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annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

@imsatindoll Thanks for visiting! I'm so awful at volleyball. :) Let me know if you like tennis; I love it!

tinahua 12 pts

Hey Anne! I think it's pretty awesome that you're taking up golf. It's definitely something I want to learn as a part of my "becoming a business woman" plan :-P Other things I'd love to learn in the near future are photography, programming, and curling!...

It sounds like you've got a good plan set up, and I bet you'll be really good at the end of summer! How are things btw? 

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 tinahua Tina! Thanks for stopping by. :) Yeah, I think golf certainly has some practical uses in the business world...one more reason to try to get into it! Programming is on my list, too, but I'm not sure when I'll get around to that. 

 

Things are going well! We all miss you here. By the way, the office is entirely full now, so we're moving again in July! Crazy, huh? I can remember when it was practically empty when we moved in last summer.

tinahua 12 pts

 annedreshfield Wow, really? That is pretty crazy. I remember the echo problems because we were so few people. I'll be stateside in a couple of weeks on a family vacation and was thinking about stopping by Livefyre in July. Guess I should hear back to make sure I visit the right offices!

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 tinahua You should definitely come! I'm not sure when we're moving in July, but just get a hold of one of us if you want to know. :) We'd love to see you! 

AdamBritten 150 pts

Always nice to learn new things. Once I move into my "grown-up" apartment I'm going to buy an electric keyboard and teach myself to play. I took piano lessons when I was younger, but I've always wanted to be much better. Keep on swinging!

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 AdamBritten Yep, piano is on my list, too! I might take a class in it next semester if I can fit it in. I figure I can't be hurt by a little more learning. :) 

AdamBritten 150 pts

 annedreshfield I was planning on taking a piano class and a photography class my senior year in college, just for fun. But instead, I dropped my second major and my minor and graduated a year early to move to London for graduate school. (I think it was a fair swap!)

annedreshfield 1130 pts moderator

 AdamBritten Okay, you're going to have to tell me this story in person in the office. To be honest, I could graduate earlier if I wanted to, but at the moment I've decided to just enjoy my last year in college before moving into the Big Bad World officially. Like I told you, I'm going to have to pick your brains about Hult, too -- they're one of the schools I'm considering if/when I decide to apply to graduate programs!